Personal space

Hi all...today i have planned to take you through something that one should take care while being social.I hope this blog is useful for some of us and have a happy reading.

People are broadly of three types as introverts, extroverts and ambiverts though there are some sub-categories exists as unstable introvert and unstable extrovert.We often confuse being introvert with being shy. They aren't the same thing, though many introverts do tend to be shy.An introvert is someone who love to spend time with themselves. Shyness is something different ,that can be defined in simple words as being afraid of criticism from others.Extroverts likes being with people and there exists a category somewhere in between both the above cases called ambiverts. None of the above cases is mistake but they are just different natures that exist among different peoples.

I think it is good to know about personal space to stay tension free in being social or in a relationship.We often come across people who often update their status in social media and who don't.For some people to may be enjoyable to share more about themselves and there are peoples who doesn't like to be get noticed by others.Being watched may be a thing of fear and stress for the second category.They need more space and time for themselves to think about themselves or their life  than the previous kind.Let me try to get it clear by explaining a situation.Lets assume that four of our friends are out together and among them two persons try to talk and interact with us at a same time.At that instant most of us may tell them to keep silent and let any one person speak. It is just a common thing right....and most of our friends understand and won't get offended.It is a similar case when a person shouts "leave me alone......". It doesn't mean that they are avoiding us or they hate our relationship but it means that they are interacting with themselves and they ask for personal space to deal with that.So it is really a genuine thing and its better to do the same rather than forcing them to talk or arguing with common dialogues like "Am I bored to you?....or..... I seams that much unimportant to you?....." which would even screw up the unhealthiness in relationship .

First of all it is needed to know the space limits we need for ourselves because after exposing our views on various perspectives a major category of population always interested in giving their opinion on our views...just like getting positive and negative feedback and comments on our social media posts.It is natural that most of the people often stay tuned with the correctness of their own views and not ready to accept the opinion of others . So before sharing our views with public or with someone , it is good to know whether we are ready to receive their opinion and in some cases admit them in a genuine way.

These kind of things often occurs in intimate relationships like parents,partner,siblings or friends. It is good to ask our self  "Am I really ready to listen?". Respecting personal space of others often make things very simple and it is not fair to expect others  to be like us or to judge or force them based on our own self at times.

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Apple-Concepts behind the brand

Apple-Concepts behind the brand

Hi....let me get you all through some business paths followed by apple that i found interesting in my own style of writing.Please further refer in this topic if you found something interesting and have a happy reading.

Why i am mentioning it as brand(not company) because it holds the most valuable brand name worth $17 billion.Let me take you through the problems solved by apple to reach its level.Apple was invented first by Steve Wozniak.Steve jobs contributed a lot in designing and marketing the product.Until then the big leader in computer manufacturing was IBM. It was possible to upgrade anything in theirs computer which is more similar to the upgrations that can be done with out windows PCs like changing a 4 GB RAM to 8 GB or installing a graphics card if needed and so on.User friendliness and professional friendliness are concerned much in apple. Next is its plug and play..but what does it meant by professional friendliness..most of the computers at that time are concentrating on the works like typing number entry and so on..no one except apple cared of designing a computer that is needed by painters,designers,musicians,etc.

Innovations at apple was never first at most of the time..but their innovations are crystal clear. We often feel that the new technologies are implemented first in androids but it seems to feel better when it was bought into ios . Any new technology is implemented by apple after it improvised and refined. Its aesthetic sense also contributes a lot.

Apple decides to be a premium one .Their target market is very focused.The market share* of apple is 9%(*In simpler terms market share is nothing but the percentage of people choose to buy apple while buying a product) ..but apple profits a lot more than the companies holding a larger market share than it by knowing well about their customers.It doesn't meant that the people decides to buy apple must be a rich one but the ones not care much to spent to get the needed quality.

Apple Eco system*(*In simpler terms apple products like iPhone ,mac book,mac pro  works easily with each other with a common app store) and app plat form are reliable....because the product line* of apple is very simple(In simpler terms the number of variations in each products-limited versions).The quality of app store products are good because the needed compatibility can be provided mostly in specific to apple unlike the variations in android or windows.Moreover pirated soft wares over apple are difficult comparatively therefore the developers are benefited more.

Last but the most important thing in my priority is...in apple,their innovations are customer oriented. They try to solve the customer's problems before even identified by the customers itself.Let me handle with an example.Many of us may face difficulties in while charging our laptops with a long chord.It may happen to to step across the wire that in turn pull the laptop and it may lead to falling down of both our own-self and also the product. The concept of  bringing a magnetic charging is a simple idea as we all know..but why apple should bring it?(Though the credits goes for dell to introduce inductive charging in laptops the concept got its fame through apple)..because if the customer gets more than their expectations then the brand providing those service would become their favourite and absolutely that is what a company is working for right?


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How to become confident using body language

Hi ...seeing the topic you may get a thought that how body language can affect confident..It is very simple..we all knows that in curing any illness our thoughts plays a major role..in a similar way our body also equally contributes to the activities of brain.So by consciously maintaining some body postures we ca easily indicate the opponent and our self that we are confident enough.

One could occupy the full chair instead of sitting on the tip of chair to indicate that he is confident..it is more recommended to keep their hands on their lap or on the sides of the chair while sitting.Keeping the full weight on hands over table and folding the hands across the body should be avoided.

Whenever possible while talking try to stand and talk..because the voice would arise from the bottom of stomach and it seems more bassy and powerful.

In case of a presentation try to occupy the space on the stage fully instead of limiting yourself to a limited space.Leaning on a single leg should also be avoided
Try to avoid raising hands above the shoulders except in case of stressing out any important point.

I tried to give some basic ideas about the concept i mentioned above and one could research for further clarifications and details.Please let me know in comments if someone interested in my further continuation on body language topic. 

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Myself-A brief intro

Hi all...after a long and deep thinking i have decided to start writing.My blog  posts would be mostly  about self-development ,technology and my understandings about some interesting books  and movies i come across.I assure the readers that the contents presented will never be too lengthy to bore you.I try to present useful contents in a crispy way.For the ones who would like to know more about me personally i have given the links of  my profiles in social medias.
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