Stepping stone for Success

Hi friends.....its happy to reach you all through this new blog.We often find people frustrated on life or our own selfs may came across such parts at times.In this blog I have tried to share something that may be useful for us while dealing with hard phases of life.Have a happy reading.

I would like to start with a nice answer of Elon Musk ,"I expect to fail"(Elon Musk , a scientist entrepreneur, founder of paypal,one of the top rich and influential persons in the world,presently trying to do shuttle service to mars-spaceX) when an interviewer asked him " Sir,even NASA is still not successful in shuttle service to mars,but why don't you fear to get a failure in your attempt on that".He continues that,"At times, it is important to do some thing that seems essential for us in life, immaterial of its results".One could grab the point behind his answer as"At some point our actions and decisions should be apart from success or failure but it may be a thing that adds on some meaning to our living".

Though the above case is a good sample for motivation,not all the failures are considered good.We could draw a separating line between the tow possible kinds of failure with the impact it creates on the thoughts of the person who undergoes that.In simpler terms,if a failure makes one to think that his-own-self as good for nothing or his life was completely done with that failure,then those failure are considered bad ones.

Let me try to present something in points that may help out to set things right even in case of a failure.

Knowing the target better gives the complete plan to recover.Just not throwing an arrow at every possible application, but having a better understanding of what we are going to try,the impacts in case of a win or a loss,the stuffs we need to invest for that and a plan to regain in case of a loss.

Try changing a failure as a data point seems a bit more interesting.Once Edison discovered electric bulb after a large number of tries he conveyed not that "He failed in his previous tries" but that "He discovered one could not make an electric bulb in that much possible ways".Try recording the failure and not to fail in the same way again may be a better version of previous example.

Developing on flaws seems something that could help in case of creative things or processes .Let things be done,the flaws be occurred and so  they could help developing a better version of the same, because ...in case of creative stuffs,we are not supposed to do some existing tasks.This means we are trying to do something that is new . So,in this case it seems better not to waste time on over thinking but to let the experiment be done first and corrected further to get a faster growth. 

Measured failure is just being aware of where could we be left in case of a failure,how much money and fame we may loss due to that.Getting a preview about the losses that may occur may give either a better insight to make a better decision or at-least makes the recovery easier.

Quick failure,Sometimes it is better not to fear doing something and getting failed at a younger age because one could find more time to experiment and grow further in life.....because at times, failure that occurs during the middle of phases of life may leave more aggressive impact than the ones at earlier days.
I have tried to present stuffs in a shorter and clearer form.I hope this blog may be useful for some of us.Thanks for reading.

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Handling negative people

Hi friends...I'm happy to reach you all with this new blog.We all face different types of people in our day to day life.I tried to express my views and learnings in handling negative people.I hope this blog would be useful for some of us.Have a happy reading.

The reason behind the negativity of a person is not exactly that  they hate us but may be their bitter past experiences and their concern about us.Whenever a person conveys something negative it is good to ask our own self a few questions.Firstly "Have I thought about this negative thing earlier?"..if the answer is "yes",then we might have taken our decision even after considering that negative aspect and the difficulties.So no need of worrying about the same negative aspect over and over again.Say them that "I have already clearly analysed in that perspective.I know these difficulties exist but I still want to do the same because of some reason...thanks for your inputs".If the answer is "No" then we should consider their point,think in that perspective and re-analyze our decision.Say them that "I haven't thought about this thing earlier.I will re-analyze my decision and thanks for your inputs".Just because someone is saying something negative to us it doesn't means that they are our enemy.Sometimes people may convey things due to their care about our goodness.

Apart from negative people there is another category called "Toxic people".It is good to identify this kind of people as early as people.Let me try to present a few points to find such ones. First of all, just  have a thought about "Did they tell us a negative thing due to their care for our goodness or due to their haterade on our growth...".

Secondly "Why do they care? How does this thing affect them?"At sometimes our actions and decisions may affect others more than us.So in the second case the people are not negative or toxic but they are defensive and protective.They are saying a negative thing just to remind us that our actions affects them.It mostly occurs in intimate relationships like parents, partner,siblings or our children .So in this case it is good to consider their point genuinely and take care to reduce the aggressive impact of our decisions on them.

Finally...just think about the past actions of that particular negative person.If all the previous actions of that person is with an intention to stop our progress or  just to create a stress,then obviously in this time too there is a maximum possibility that they were approaching for the same kind of degrading  reason.These people are "The toxic ones". Once after identifying this kind of people trying to eliminate them from our life may be a better decision.We could try to avoid meeting them and it is good stay away from them in all possible ways because these people drain our energy.

I have tried to express my views in a more generalized way and as short as possible.Thanks for reading this blog.

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Personal space

Hi all...today i have planned to take you through something that one should take care while being social.I hope this blog is useful for some of us and have a happy reading.

People are broadly of three types as introverts, extroverts and ambiverts though there are some sub-categories exists as unstable introvert and unstable extrovert.We often confuse being introvert with being shy. They aren't the same thing, though many introverts do tend to be shy.An introvert is someone who love to spend time with themselves. Shyness is something different ,that can be defined in simple words as being afraid of criticism from others.Extroverts likes being with people and there exists a category somewhere in between both the above cases called ambiverts. None of the above cases is mistake but they are just different natures that exist among different peoples.

I think it is good to know about personal space to stay tension free in being social or in a relationship.We often come across people who often update their status in social media and who don't.For some people to may be enjoyable to share more about themselves and there are peoples who doesn't like to be get noticed by others.Being watched may be a thing of fear and stress for the second category.They need more space and time for themselves to think about themselves or their life  than the previous kind.Let me try to get it clear by explaining a situation.Lets assume that four of our friends are out together and among them two persons try to talk and interact with us at a same time.At that instant most of us may tell them to keep silent and let any one person speak. It is just a common thing right....and most of our friends understand and won't get offended.It is a similar case when a person shouts "leave me alone......". It doesn't mean that they are avoiding us or they hate our relationship but it means that they are interacting with themselves and they ask for personal space to deal with that.So it is really a genuine thing and its better to do the same rather than forcing them to talk or arguing with common dialogues like "Am I bored to you?....or..... I seams that much unimportant to you?....." which would even screw up the unhealthiness in relationship .

First of all it is needed to know the space limits we need for ourselves because after exposing our views on various perspectives a major category of population always interested in giving their opinion on our views...just like getting positive and negative feedback and comments on our social media posts.It is natural that most of the people often stay tuned with the correctness of their own views and not ready to accept the opinion of others . So before sharing our views with public or with someone , it is good to know whether we are ready to receive their opinion and in some cases admit them in a genuine way.

These kind of things often occurs in intimate relationships like parents,partner,siblings or friends. It is good to ask our self  "Am I really ready to listen?". Respecting personal space of others often make things very simple and it is not fair to expect others  to be like us or to judge or force them based on our own self at times.

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Apple-Concepts behind the brand

Apple-Concepts behind the brand

Hi....let me get you all through some business paths followed by apple that i found interesting in my own style of writing.Please further refer in this topic if you found something interesting and have a happy reading.

Why i am mentioning it as brand(not company) because it holds the most valuable brand name worth $17 billion.Let me take you through the problems solved by apple to reach its level.Apple was invented first by Steve Wozniak.Steve jobs contributed a lot in designing and marketing the product.Until then the big leader in computer manufacturing was IBM. It was possible to upgrade anything in theirs computer which is more similar to the upgrations that can be done with out windows PCs like changing a 4 GB RAM to 8 GB or installing a graphics card if needed and so on.User friendliness and professional friendliness are concerned much in apple. Next is its plug and play..but what does it meant by professional friendliness..most of the computers at that time are concentrating on the works like typing number entry and so on..no one except apple cared of designing a computer that is needed by painters,designers,musicians,etc.

Innovations at apple was never first at most of the time..but their innovations are crystal clear. We often feel that the new technologies are implemented first in androids but it seems to feel better when it was bought into ios . Any new technology is implemented by apple after it improvised and refined. Its aesthetic sense also contributes a lot.

Apple decides to be a premium one .Their target market is very focused.The market share* of apple is 9%(*In simpler terms market share is nothing but the percentage of people choose to buy apple while buying a product) ..but apple profits a lot more than the companies holding a larger market share than it by knowing well about their customers.It doesn't meant that the people decides to buy apple must be a rich one but the ones not care much to spent to get the needed quality.

Apple Eco system*(*In simpler terms apple products like iPhone ,mac book,mac pro  works easily with each other with a common app store) and app plat form are reliable....because the product line* of apple is very simple(In simpler terms the number of variations in each products-limited versions).The quality of app store products are good because the needed compatibility can be provided mostly in specific to apple unlike the variations in android or windows.Moreover pirated soft wares over apple are difficult comparatively therefore the developers are benefited more.

Last but the most important thing in my priority is...in apple,their innovations are customer oriented. They try to solve the customer's problems before even identified by the customers itself.Let me handle with an example.Many of us may face difficulties in while charging our laptops with a long chord.It may happen to to step across the wire that in turn pull the laptop and it may lead to falling down of both our own-self and also the product. The concept of  bringing a magnetic charging is a simple idea as we all know..but why apple should bring it?(Though the credits goes for dell to introduce inductive charging in laptops the concept got its fame through apple)..because if the customer gets more than their expectations then the brand providing those service would become their favourite and absolutely that is what a company is working for right?


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How to become confident using body language

Hi ...seeing the topic you may get a thought that how body language can affect confident..It is very simple..we all knows that in curing any illness our thoughts plays a major role..in a similar way our body also equally contributes to the activities of brain.So by consciously maintaining some body postures we ca easily indicate the opponent and our self that we are confident enough.

One could occupy the full chair instead of sitting on the tip of chair to indicate that he is confident..it is more recommended to keep their hands on their lap or on the sides of the chair while sitting.Keeping the full weight on hands over table and folding the hands across the body should be avoided.

Whenever possible while talking try to stand and talk..because the voice would arise from the bottom of stomach and it seems more bassy and powerful.

In case of a presentation try to occupy the space on the stage fully instead of limiting yourself to a limited space.Leaning on a single leg should also be avoided
Try to avoid raising hands above the shoulders except in case of stressing out any important point.

I tried to give some basic ideas about the concept i mentioned above and one could research for further clarifications and details.Please let me know in comments if someone interested in my further continuation on body language topic. 

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Myself-A brief intro

Hi all...after a long and deep thinking i have decided to start writing.My blog  posts would be mostly  about self-development ,technology and my understandings about some interesting books  and movies i come across.I assure the readers that the contents presented will never be too lengthy to bore you.I try to present useful contents in a crispy way.For the ones who would like to know more about me personally i have given the links of  my profiles in social medias.
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